A decisive letting go
Since the first of the year, the Lord has been saying to me, “Be still, and know that I am God.” Sounds sort of sweet, sort of trite. But the God who wants me to know HIM has shown me that the Hebrew word usually translated “be still” is not the word for resting quietly. Rather, it’s the word for a decisive letting go, or an abrupt cessation, of something strenuous that you were doing. One picture that comes to mind: suddenly releasing a tug-of-war rope.
Some English translations try to capture this meaning:
“Desist, and learn that I am God, supreme over the nations, supreme over the earth.” (CJB)
“Cease striving [Or, Let go, relax] and know that I am God …” (NASU)
“Let go of your concerns! Then you will know that I am God …” (GOD’S WORD)
“‘Stop fighting,’ he says, ‘and know that I am God …’” (GNT)
“Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God …” (MSG)
One tug-of-war rope which I’m decisively letting go in this season is named enmeshment – a counterfeit for intimacy that wreaks havoc with identity and boundaries. How I got enmeshed in enmeshment, I don’t yet understand, but its destruction in my life, I clearly see.
Identities, like snowflakes, are unique. The creator God gave every person a custom-tailored, one-of-a-kind, identity to embrace and to live to the fullest in Christ Jesus. Your identity – yes, yours – is exquisite, a masterpiece!
Identities, like toothbrushes, are not to be shared. Ever. They cannot be shared successfully. When we try, we do not gain the identity we’re trying to assume. Instead, we start a tug-of war that no one wins. Wherever enmeshment encroaches – wherever identities and boundaries get confused – everyone involved is diminished and hindered from becoming who they were created to be.
Dearly loved of God, I bless you in the name of your Creator and Redeemer with seeing any places that enmeshment has encroached into your life and relationships. Be blessed to: Desist! Cease! Stop! Let go! Even if it’s a matter of others trying to latch onto your identity, something in you has allowed it. Whichever end of the rope you’re holding, release it! Step away from the confusion and exertion. Be still. Be blessed to take a long, loving look at God and, in him, to become the masterpiece you are.
Looking up
It’s hard to look up when you’re lying prostrate. Sometimes, it seems impossible. If confusion, hurt, and anger are pummeling you without mercy, you may be very tempted, when you do look up, to shake your fist. Suddenly, God is not the God you thought you knew, and you’re not sure why. Is the situation too big for Him to handle? Has He made promises He can’t keep? Has He gone to sleep or turned His back on you at your moment of greatest need?
However impossible the task may seem, your job now is to lift your head. As you do, raise your voice if you must, but not your fist.
The God you thought you knew is past knowing. You will never, with confidence, be able to predict what He is going to do in any given situation. You will never know anything of Him that He does not choose to reveal to you.
Yet, He invites you to know Him better. He offers to reveal Himself, if you will seek Him. Sometimes, when He seems the most hidden or the farthest removed, He is preparing to show you more of Himself than you have ever seen.
Let your situation prompt you to turn toward Him. Seek Him now. ↑
excerpted from Things Fail, People Fall, by Deborah Brunt – available at keytruths.com.
We Confess! – the book
Lately, my columns and blog posts have been erratic, not because I haven’t been writing – but because I have. Now the ebook edition of the work I’ve labored so long to bring to birth is live on Kindle and Nook!
This, my fifth book, is different from anything I’ve ever written. My guess is: It’s different from anything you’ve ever read. I pray that it will evoke deep, astounding changes in many lives.
Check out We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church on Kindle from Amazon and on Nook from Barnes & Noble.
You can order the softcover and hardcover editions of We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church from Amazon or from keytruths.com. (Copies sent from keytruths.com are signed and special offers are available.)
It’s a book! (almost)
God is revealing what we haven’t wanted to see, so we can become who we truly are.
Here’s a sneak peek at We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church
(softcover, hardcover, ebook)
How could a church culture that lifted high the name of Jesus make covenant with the Confederacy? How did the Southern Baptist Convention lead the way? How do divided hearts and unholy covenants still hinder awakening in the conservative US church? What dramatic changes will a spirit of grace and supplication bring?
We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church uncovers the answers, historically, biblically, Spirit-to-spirit.
“My Beloved, much of what you think and feel is rooted in who you are not—but have mistakenly believed you are. Try as you might, you cannot see clearly; you cannot step fully into all I have for you. Binding entanglements keep you from it. Generational bloodguilt keeps you from fully knowing me.
“Come to me. Lay aside denial and offense. Stop being ruled and misled, beaten up and torn apart by logic and emotion. Come to me. I will release you.”
Honest, compelling, courageous, redemptive, this remarkable look at the conservative church culture rooted in the Deep South explores such topics as:
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king cotton and mighty oaks;
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the fast God has chosen;
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spiritual bulimia;
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spiritual schizophrenia;
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blood covenant;
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cleansing from bloodguilt;
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an undivided heart.
Identity, validity, personhood
I am a person. For awhile, though, other people didn’t see me as one.
The delegitimization peaked in my 40s. I had no clue what was happening, or why. When you don’t know what’s happening, or why – or even when you think you do – here’s a good rule of thumb: Follow the Lord. Listen to his voice. Find his eyes up ahead of you on the path. Go that way. He’ll take you the right direction even when you can’t figure out for the life of you what is going on.
I did not know that the narrow, windy, precipitous path where God took me led me back to full personhood – or rather, into true personhood as I had never experienced it.
Somewhere along the path, I began to realize that Jesus was establishing my identity. Then, it became clear that Holy Spirit was affirming my validity. But only now do I see: Father was doing an even more basic work. Identity and validity mean nothing except in the context of personhood.
Read more of the Key Truths article, “Personhood (Part 1)” . . .
The LORD is with you, mighty warrior
a few words, an anointed song
